The Uncharted Territory of College Recruiting

“I would say that it's [recruiting] a mix of building relationships and learning about yourself and your preferences to find a college that is right for you.” - Mackenzie Holmes of Indiana University Women's Basketball

Exploring the basics of the recruiting process: this is just the beginning. Let this process EMpower you!

Dream vs. Reality

Being recruited to play a college sport is a dream for many, but a reality for few. And, as exciting as it can be, it can be just as overwhelming. The recruiting process takes place between the ages of 13 to 18 years old. If you are lucky enough to begin the process early, many of these years are spent struggling to know who are and what you want - especially at such a young age. This is the main reason the recruiting process can be overwhelming and also why transfer rates are currently higher than ever before. Colleges are doing everything they can to get you to come to their school, therefore, they are only showing you the things you want to see: the shiny locker rooms, big gyms, and a multitude of gear. However, this can be very misleading.

With that being said, the best advice I can give to you is to know your goals, morals, and values, and hold them steadfast. When you are on a visit or talking to coaches on the phone, it is imperative that you share these things with conviction. It may seem uncomfortable discussing such topics especially with coaches who are recruiting you but if you want the best fit, it starts with communication. As much as the coaches want to know who they are recruiting, you and your parents should want to know who is potentially going to coach you.

 When getting into recruiting take your time and do not allow others to pressure you. At the end of the day, this choice is yours and it will be your life for the next four years (or more). If a coach is pressuring you to make a decision that should be a sign that maybe that school is not the place for you. If friends and family are pressuring you do not be afraid to set boundaries early. This is a time in your life where you have great potential to grow by learning to advocate for yourself. Lastly, you may change your mind multiple times and that is okay, just make sure to communicate honestly with those who are recruiting you. This will ensure that you do not waste your time or their time.